Monday, March 26, 2012

Baby K's Quilt

I've finally picked a quilt pattern for Baby K! I had originally found a quilt that had large-ish machine appliqued turtles. But I really don't think I have the time to teach myself machine applique to the point that I would be brave enough to do it on an actual quilt. So I found a really cute pattern that utilizes a larger scale print and simple piecing.

Quilt Pattern

Naturally I headed to my favorite ABQ quilt shop, Southwest Decoratives, to pick out the fabrics! Since we do not know the baby's gender I tried to go with a neutral green theme. But it ended up being more green and blue. Oh well. It will be super cute regardless! The print in the upper left corner that looks like plain white is actually cream colored with white dragonflies. You can see it better in the second picture.
Fabrics for Baby K's quilt
Close up of fabric from upper left had corner. It's dragonflies!!
I finished cutting all the pieces today. Tomorrow I hope to start the piecing. I have quite a few half square triangles to make from the blue sunflowery and dragonfly prints. After that it's just piecing the squares, which should go pretty quickly!

I am tempted to have it long arm quilted at the quilt shop. For some reason I can't get the tension adjusted properly for free motion quilting. My machine can handle straight line quilting, but that is kinda boring. I think it just depends on how quickly I finish it, as the shop has a 4-6 week wait for long arm quilting.

I am also making this same pattern for our neighbor who is having a little boy! She has decided on a monkey themed quilt! It will also be super cute!!

Nothing new to report in baby related news. This little girl or guy is kicking up a storm! We have a regular doctors appointment and a perinatal ultrasound before we head to NY for the baby shower. We are really looking forward to seeing everyone in April!



Saturday, March 10, 2012

Week 22 and Gender Guessing

We have officially passed the half way point! According to one of my pregnancy apps, we have 125 days to go before Baby K makes her (or his, just to be fair, but I am sure it's a girl) arrival. I swear that number was 200 just a few days ago! This pregnancy is going by so quickly! Which is a good thing because I am not a patient person and I am very anxious to meet this little troublemaker! The kicking and flipping has been getting much stronger that last week or so! Other than not sleeping well, I have been feeling really good. At my last appointment the Dr. declared my part of the pregnancy still normal. I have gained 6 lbs since the previous appointment. The baby's heartbeat was in the 150's and the doctor again had trouble getting it because the baby didn't want to sit still long enough!
22 Week Baby Bump

Week 22 compared to Week 18, yup I definitely look pregnant now!
We finally completed our baby registries last weekend - Babies R Us, Target, and Amazon.  That took a lot longer than I thought it would. Especially since Ryan is a research fanatic. There is just so much you need for a baby. And it's all soooo cute! While we were shooting for a turtle theme in the nursery, there just wasn't much stuff with turtles on it. So it is going to be more of a hodge-podge. We found the cutest little Peek-a-Boo Monster Crib set which looks more like a boy set and really doesn't go with even a plain animal theme, but I couldn't resist! It might just be me, but some of those monsters look suspiciously like my beloved food born pathogen microbes! Yes, I realize very few people would find that endearing, but y'all know I'm not normal :)

The Amazon registry was a late addition. It only has a few items that we (Ryan) couldn't find acceptable models of at Babies R Us and Target. In fact, Ryan spent 3 hours last weekend researching the baby carrier on the Amazon wish list. It also has a second diaper bag that I made Ryan pick out so he wouldn't have to carry around the super girly one that I picked out!

Here are a few more photos of things we have collected for the baby's room. I think I will post a few pictures in each blog and near the end post a picture of the whole room!
Baby K's first Ugly Doll
I really love the Ugly Dolls. They are super cute! I'm even tempted to make my own - once I finish some of the other projects I have in the works...

We got this lamp shortly after our first doctor visit. This lamp and the wall canvas that goes with it were what directed us to the Turtle/pond nursery theme. I do love my slimy-scaly creepy crawlies!
Lamp for Baby K's room

I have planned a preggo clothing shopping/girls day out trip with some of my neighbor friends. I am in desperate need of some maternity tops. The one in the pictures above is a maternity shirt, but it already doesn't completely cover my bump! And all my pre-pregnancy shirts don't even come close to covering it.


We are really looking forward to heading to NY and IL for the baby showers in April! We can't wait to see everyone!

Does anyone have any guesses on the baby's gender? I think, and a few NM peeps agree with me, that the way I am carrying this little bundle means it's a girl! Any other comments or ways to determine the gender are welcome! (Even though we have the 100% correct answer in the chromosome report, but Ryan still won't budge)

(Please note that I only include the link to the registries because several people have expressed interest in just seeing what he picked out. I am not trolling for gifts...)

Saturday, March 3, 2012

Ultrasound and the Unexpected

Sorry for the radio silence on this end. We had our official ultrasound a little over 2 weeks ago (just under 19 weeks). During the ultrasound the technician noticed fluid in the chest cavity, between the chest wall and the lungs on one side. This is called pleural effusion and is not common. We were sent to see the perinatal specialist that afternoon. They repeated the ultrasound and found the same fluid accumulation. There was some slight compression of the lung on that side, but the heart looked perfectly healthy. We were told this could be due to chromosomal and genetic anomalies, a virus, or incomplete formation of some structure. Both ultrasounds at the regular doctor and the perinatal specialist showed no other abnormalities or malformations, and measurements were all accurate for the gestational age. After speaking with the genetic counselor we decided to proceed with an amniocentesis. The amnio was done to see if we could determine what was causing the fluid accumulation - chromosomal and genetic problems as well as viruses can be detected with an amnio. (We had the routine chromosomal and neural tube defect screening done at week 15 and the results were negative. My gramma had spina bifida so I was very anxious to get that cleared up as early as possible)

The amnio was not fun. At all. Not that I thought it would be. I almost vomited at the end. And that is the last thing you want to do when you have a needle stuck into your uterus. So we went home with instructions to take it easy for the night and watch for signs of miscarriage from the amnio procedure. Needless to say, I was completely hysterical. The reason so few people even knew about this is because I couldn't physically speak about it without getting hysterical all over again. Ryan was my knight in shining armor though. He was steady as a rock and kept grounded throughout this very hard time!

Early the following week we got the results of the FISH test - negative for Down Syndrome, Trisome 13 and 18. At the end of that week we got the full chromosomal and virus results. All results were negative and/or normal. With a lack of genetic, chromosomal or viral causes the diagnosis was chylothorax (which just means an accumulation of lymphatic fluid in the chest cavity). They often don't know what causes it. We were scheduled to go back in 2 weeks for another ultrasound to determine if the fluid accumulation had gotten worse and see if it was further impacting that lung and the heart. If the fluid was still present it would have to be drained and possibly have a shunt put into place to keep it draining. Our so far perfect pregnancy was officially declared high risk.

I did feel much better after we heard all the testing was negative or normal. But I was still very anxious for the ultrasound. My appetite certainly declined for a few days. But it did bounce back. Now I'm just hungry all the time.

It was the Sunday following the disastrous ultrasound that I felt the first real kick. It was very bittersweet because I didn't know if I would ever meet this little guy or girl in person. The kicks got stronger and more regular. The baby is SUPER active now!

We went back for our follow up ultrasound last Thursday. I was anxiously watching the screen while the technician repeated all the measurements. Apparently ultrasound software can determine gestational age to THE DAY. According to the calendar we were 20 weeks 6 days pregnant that day, and the software determined the same - 20w6d. Pretty amazing. I'd hate to be the poor grad student that had to crank all that SAS data!!

Again, the ultrasound showed no abnormalities or malformations. And the fluid was gone. Just, POOF, gone. 2 weeks of extreme panic and hysterics for nothing. We were both extremely relieved!! The doctor said the lungs and heart looks perfect and there is no sign of the previous fluid accumulation.

So after much to do, I present to you little Baby K at 20 weeks 6 days of gestation. 

Thumb sucking Baby K at 20 weeks 6 days
The one upside to this scare is that we will continue to see the perinatal specialist for the rest of the pregnancy for ultrasounds to make sure the fluid does not come back. So we will have at least a few more pictures of Baby K before he/she arrives. Our next ultrasound is scheduled for just before we head up to NY for our baby shower.

And I am now convinced that little Baby K is a girl. Only girls put their parents through this kind of turmoil and stress. Really it's just karma coming back to get me for being a teenage girl. Even though I was an angel compared to other female teens! Ryan is unconvinced.

On a lighter note, we finally registered yesterday!